My husband who is an alcoholic and won’t work so he can stay home and drink, had me me commited to rehab,?
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He has made his problem my problem. He went online and researched alcohol abuse and everything I do he makes fit into that catagory. He thinks he absolves himself because he says he is an alcoholic and needs help, but has not sought any type of help. Love him with my soul, do i stay? He also has an anger problem, he can’t say he is wrong or say he is sorry.
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Answer by thatartistwin
Nobody can have you “committed” to a rehab unless a judge orders it because of some risk to you or your children. If you went because he demanded it, that is your issue. As for the rest of it, demand couples counseling and individual counseling, If he won’t go, leave him. He does not work, he does not offer anything to the relationship….no point in continuing.
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January 26th, 2012 at 1:57 pm
You are exactly the opposite of your handle.
Tell him either he quits the booze or you will leave. Then you will find out which he loves more, you or the booze.
January 26th, 2012 at 2:42 pm
When people ask questions like this, they already know the answer. They just need to hear it from someone else. You know what you need to do. If he wont go to rehab, if he wont get a job, if he wont stop drinking, then you need to….